Comments on: Can You Tell Me Why My Wife Would Lie Like This? http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/ Fri, 20 Jan 2012 10:33:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: AJ http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-659 AJ Sat, 04 Jul 2009 20:53:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-659 Guess you'll have to decide if you can accept cuckolding or want a divorce. <br><b>References : </b><br>http://www.nerve.com/dispatches/ma/cuckold/ Guess you’ll have to decide if you can accept cuckolding or want a divorce.
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]]> By: John http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-658 John Sat, 04 Jul 2009 20:18:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-658 How do I say this … she is laying and cheating on you? I do not think you are paranoid, I just believe that you deep down know the truth and that is why you are paranoid. All this is BS: wedding ring, going out to bar all by herself, sleeping over at the female friend…. that is not normal in any marriage and she cannot find anything else but to claim that you are paranoid. No one should put up with that much garbage. Do yourself a favor and list to your instincts.<br><b>References : </b><br> How do I say this … she is laying and cheating on you? I do not think you are paranoid, I just believe that you deep down know the truth and that is why you are paranoid. All this is BS: wedding ring, going out to bar all by herself, sleeping over at the female friend…. that is not normal in any marriage and she cannot find anything else but to claim that you are paranoid. No one should put up with that much garbage. Do yourself a favor and list to your instincts.
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]]> By: Brigitta http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-657 Brigitta Sat, 04 Jul 2009 19:36:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-657 Yep, based on what's in your Q&A, I'd be worried. Actually, I'd be furious. <br><b>References : </b><br> Yep, based on what’s in your Q&A, I’d be worried. Actually, I’d be furious.
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]]> By: lutasong http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-656 lutasong Sat, 04 Jul 2009 18:48:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-656 I am not your wife, but it sounds to me that there is something more to that then what she told you. I have to say that for a simple reason like that one she came up with a very complicated web like that. At the same time if you get as upset about little things like that then maybe she felt like she had no choice. You both might want to sit down and talk about all of this and see if you can come up with some kind of deal where the two of you are happy.<br><b>References : </b><br> I am not your wife, but it sounds to me that there is something more to that then what she told you. I have to say that for a simple reason like that one she came up with a very complicated web like that. At the same time if you get as upset about little things like that then maybe she felt like she had no choice. You both might want to sit down and talk about all of this and see if you can come up with some kind of deal where the two of you are happy.
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]]> By: vegemily http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-655 vegemily Sat, 04 Jul 2009 18:25:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-655 Well it depends on what point you two are at. I was married to a jealous, controlling man and for ten YEARS put up with his abuse and it is abuse. I never cheated but eventually did start lying to avoid all of the accusations so I could start doing innocent things that to him were a big deal. It would avoid the confrontation and inevitable fight. Eventually, I filed for divorce. I am now happily single and able to spend the night at a female co-workers home if I want to, or a mans' for that matter... There is no one to have to lie to anymore. So, really you need to examine yourself and your relationship for the answers.<br><b>References : </b><br> Well it depends on what point you two are at. I was married to a jealous, controlling man and for ten YEARS put up with his abuse and it is abuse. I never cheated but eventually did start lying to avoid all of the accusations so I could start doing innocent things that to him were a big deal. It would avoid the confrontation and inevitable fight. Eventually, I filed for divorce. I am now happily single and able to spend the night at a female co-workers home if I want to, or a mans’ for that matter… There is no one to have to lie to anymore.
So, really you need to examine yourself and your relationship for the answers.
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]]> By: Jackie http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-654 Jackie Sat, 04 Jul 2009 17:53:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-654 Well, from your question, I got that yes she lied, but you also proved her point in saying that you are jealous, paranoid by calling the airline to "verify" she didn't miss her flight. Come on now....you called to verify her story. Not to see if she missed her flight. You even stated before that part that you were "Suspicious" by saying you thought it a bit odd. I can see why she would lie even about something so simple....because you have trust and jealousy issues. she was just trying to avoid an unneeded fight over nothing. The real question is....why are you so jealous and and not trusting of your wife? <br><b>References : </b><br> Well, from your question, I got that yes she lied, but you also proved her point in saying that you are jealous, paranoid by calling the airline to "verify" she didn’t miss her flight. Come on now….you called to verify her story. Not to see if she missed her flight. You even stated before that part that you were "Suspicious" by saying you thought it a bit odd.

I can see why she would lie even about something so simple….because you have trust and jealousy issues. she was just trying to avoid an unneeded fight over nothing.

The real question is….why are you so jealous and and not trusting of your wife?
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]]> By: CalamityJane http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-653 CalamityJane Sat, 04 Jul 2009 17:28:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-653 That sounds extremely fishy. Even if the story she gave you is true that she would and could make up a lie that elaborate should be very troubling. If this is something she does often you might want to hire someone to look into it for you. I would also recommend marriage counseling, she needs to learn the importance of honesty in the relationship and if it really is that your are overly jealous or paranoid you need to learn to trust. Unfortunately both your jealousy and paranoia and her lying are going to feed of one another and continue to purpetuate the problem if you don't fix it soon. Good luck!<br><b>References : </b><br> That sounds extremely fishy. Even if the story she gave you is true that she would and could make up a lie that elaborate should be very troubling. If this is something she does often you might want to hire someone to look into it for you.
I would also recommend marriage counseling, she needs to learn the importance of honesty in the relationship and if it really is that your are overly jealous or paranoid you need to learn to trust. Unfortunately both your jealousy and paranoia and her lying are going to feed of one another and continue to purpetuate the problem if you don’t fix it soon. Good luck!
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]]> By: oldwoodstockhippie http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-652 oldwoodstockhippie Sat, 04 Jul 2009 17:16:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-652 I would not be concerned at all,i would be getting a divorce and moving on to my new life.<br><b>References : </b><br> I would not be concerned at all,i would be getting a divorce and moving on to my new life.
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]]> By: Lily http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-651 Lily Sat, 04 Jul 2009 16:33:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-651 She lied because you were not going to have her sleep over. This is what happens when there is a lack of communication and understanding. How about just telling her to just leave her correct itinerary next time so you will have the information in case the plane crashes. Then never question her about her whereabouts again. Do you ever ask yourself why she took a job with so much travel, so far away? (I think she feels stifled and needs a little air). <br><b>References : </b><br> She lied because you were not going to have her sleep over. This is what happens when there is a lack of communication and understanding. How about just telling her to just leave her correct itinerary next time so you will have the information in case the plane crashes. Then never question her about her whereabouts again.

Do you ever ask yourself why she took a job with so much travel, so far away? (I think she feels stifled and needs a little air).
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]]> By: drumnjay23 http://www.lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-650 drumnjay23 Sat, 04 Jul 2009 15:58:59 +0000 http://lastminutetravelguru.com/264/can-you-tell-me-why-my-wife-would-lie-like-this/#comment-650 well understand both sides of the story. and one of 2 tings is happening. 1. she is cheating on you or 2. since you have been prone to this behavior before maybe she already knows how you would be so yes she lied to you about it. its up to you to deciede. my ex wife was like you too. and I lied to her bout things a few times cuz she is so clingy. like if i got off work early at 200 i would not come home til around 500 normal time. just cuz if i told her i got off early she would make me come home and i would have to deal with her stuff. try ignoring her. just act like u dont care what she does. not in a mean way but dont be clingy. women hate that. so after a while of doing that if she doesnt come around then you know she is cheating and your love is lost.<br><b>References : </b><br> well understand both sides of the story. and one of 2 tings is happening. 1. she is cheating on you or 2. since you have been prone to this behavior before maybe she already knows how you would be so yes she lied to you about it. its up to you to deciede. my ex wife was like you too. and I lied to her bout things a few times cuz she is so clingy. like if i got off work early at 200 i would not come home til around 500 normal time. just cuz if i told her i got off early she would make me come home and i would have to deal with her stuff. try ignoring her. just act like u dont care what she does. not in a mean way but dont be clingy. women hate that. so after a while of doing that if she doesnt come around then you know she is cheating and your love is lost.
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